The Art of Silence

Ahh relationships. One of the most important keys of being in a successful relationship is mastering the art of silence. Silence can be used in a number of different ways. It can be used to let your partner know you are pissed or to piss them off. Many times many arguments escalate because one person or another in different situations has not mastered this ancient art. When we are angry or frustrated with our partners we often strike for blood. We try to say the most hurtful ignorant things that come to our mind because we aren’t thinking with a clear head.

We love our women but they know how to push our buttons when they feel we fall short of their expectations or do things not to their liking. All a woman has is her words; she can’t physically harm the average man unless a weapon is involved and they know that. So they result to trolling to get a reaction out of you. If you don’t feed into it they can’t control your reaction because they don’t know what your thinking.

By using silence you gain the upper hand because you maintain your composure while making them look like fools for letting their emotions get the best of them. When the adrenaline subsides they will realize their actions were uncalled for and will begin to go into normal mode and try to start a dialogue instead of trying to get a reaction. This allows for healthy communication and at this point speak in a very calm yet assertive manner about the issue at hand.

She will respect you more because you didn’t sink to her level you took the high road and as a result she will respect your more because she knows a man is in control of his emotions and a boy is not. This is just the tip of the iceberg. You can’t apply it in every situation you must use your common sense and intuition. After all she wants a strong man that can take criticism yet be in control of himself it shows a certain discipline and a tremendous amount of self dignity.

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